Are you speaking words of life?

I first heard the expression "words of life" from a couple I know with six children. Not only did they make it their goal to speak kindly and encouraging of everyone in their lives, but they also encouraged their children to do so. It had an amazing impact on all their relationships and the atmosphere in their home.

We can probably all remember hurtful words that have been spoken to us in the past. That is because unkind, hurtful, critical or cruel words stick much longer than any other comments. Forget that silly nursery rhyme about sticks and stones. The truth is words can and do hurt especially when said by people who mean something to us.

So, what if we decided to stop bad mouthing others? What if we avoided criticism, gossip and hurtful comments whether behind someone's back or to their face? What if the only words that came out of our mouth were "words of life", words that encourage others, build them up and speak to their potential?

It is hard. I am not going to pretend it is easy but it can have a really positive impact on your relationships. Why not try it?

Another way of approaching it, is to THINK before you speak. Is what you are about to say:

  • T - true?
  • H - helpful?
  • I - inspiring?
  • N - necessary?
  • K - kind?

If you decide to give it a go then please let me know how you get on and the impact it has, either in the comments section below or contacting me here.

We are definitely still in the learning phase but now we have our six year old to remind us when we fall short. "Words of Life Mummy and Daddy", he tells us. And who can argue with that?